Stick a Fork in Me. I'm done.

For the past week I've felt a little like I've been operating a small catering business out of my kitchen. As you know we were working on freezer meals for which I volunteered to make two of the meals all by myself. We also hosted 2 BBQs over the weekend and Danielle's Samoan friend and her family over for dessert last night. So in the past week I have made the following in mass quantities, not including regularly served meals:

15 lbs of Cafe Rio Pork (along with the dressing, rice, and all of the trimmings)
4 quarts of Mango Chicken
6 Quiches
8 trays of Enchiladas
5 batches of Goulash (thats 5 times Mom's recipe)
1 9X13 pan of funeral potatoes
2 9X13 pans of panipopo (Samoan sweet rolls)

I also went to the grocery store and Costco a total of 5 times. Good thing I now have a freezer full of meals because I am tired of cooking and dishes!

(I'll include the recipes for some of these in a later post)

Drama

I really hope that Tyler is never for some reason interviewed by DCFS. I fear for the things he may say that would give the wrong impression. I think you know me well enough to know that I don't abuse my children and try to not even raise my voice when I'm disciplining. These are direct quotes from Tyler over the last week:

"I don't like it when you say those bad words to me." (Bad words to him are whenever I tell him no)
"Please don't drop me down the stairs, Mom." (I was taking him by the arm and leading him downstairs to his room for a time out)
"It makes me sad when you scream at me." (I had been telling him strongly, but not loudly that he needed to find something to eat that wasn't a peanut butter sandwich)



(These photos don't have anything to do with the post but were just funny photos I had on my phone)

Vanity

Anya really doesn't have much interest in other babies her age, but she loves looking at herself! She's loved the mirror for a long time, but today I had a big picture of her up on the tv screen. Anya kept looking up at the tv and smiling at the photo.

Mr. Independent

Bryce has entered a new phrase of independence lately. He's very observant of whatever Tyler's doing and wants to help with puzzles, playing with cars, trains, etc. Even when he's eating he wants to eat what Tyler's eating and in the same way. Example: I served both of them a quesadilla yesterday for lunch. I cut Tyler's into triangles and broke Bryce's into little pieces. Bryce wouldn't eat his until his quesadilla was in a triangle too. He's also insisting on using a fork and having his food in a bowl. He has a small meltdown if he's not given it to him like this. Its messy but I guess its good practice. I even caught him trying to put Tyler's shoes on this morning.

Four Months

We're into four months now. Whew! So Brandon and I were quite pleased with ourselves for "training" Anya to sleep through the night and she was even starting to take a very reliable long morning nap. Dealing with a three month old was easy as pie...until she started teething. Now we're back to square one. Anya's been reminding us that she still possesses that impressive set of lungs and is not opposed to exercising them on an hourly basis between 1 and 4 am. She went in for her four month appointment today and it was both reassuring and not so reassuring to hear that this is all perfectly normal.

In my vast four months experience as a parent, I keep re-learning exactly one thing: it's not about me. Anya's pretty much learning and growing and adjusting to life on her own. We've got good days and bad days and I'm just kind of along for the ride.

These days, Anya loves...

--Being outside. The end-all-be-all cure for whatever ails her. Luckily, we live someplace where she can spend most of her days outside.

--Chomping down on anything and everything. Particularly blankets, pacifiers and Sophie.

--Dancing with her dad. Anya loves it when Brandon grabs her arms/legs and moves them to the beat.

--The Itsy Bitsy Spider.

--Hearing her own shrieks and giggles.

--Doing little baby crunches with her head and shoulders.

--Standing (with the least amount of support possible). She's already showing a little independent spirit.

--Splashing around in the bathtub.

--Anything with a face.


Anya does not like

--Aching gums.

--Being bored.